Things My Mother Never Told Me

Girls who are generously endowed can well be proud. Being stacked will make a girl sought after and whistled at. But the kind of interest it provokes may be darned so healthy that's unhealthy. Wolves and no-goodniks looking for pure sex will be cluttering up your doorsteps, asking for dates. This is the kind of attention a girl can well do without.

The problem here is, a girl who's stacked can never be sure whether she is being taken out because she is really liked, or just because her escort wants to show her off to his buddies, then brag about the "wild body" he dated the other night. Certainly, a boy's intentions toward a girl who is stacked aren't always suspect. But this unfortunate situation prevails often enough to provide considerable consolation to some girls.

"If he tries to kiss me on the first date, should I let him? If I don't, maybe he won't ask me out again." Stop fretting girls! A nice girl doesn't hand out a kiss on the first date. Kisses are supposed to mean something. Don't pass them out like pretzels. Intrigue is a big league on dates. Whoever heard of a good story without suspense? Make him wait for that kiss. If the boy is worth liking, he will respect you for it. It sets you up as someone special.

"Should I go steady?"
a. Going steady is excluding everyone from your dates except your one-and-only. But how do you know "the one" unless you've tried going out with others, lots of others. Would you buy the first pair of shoes you tried on?
b. While your steady might look great for a while, let's face it, someone might come along that looks pretty interesting. But you're hooked.
c. Going steady before you're mature is unhealthy. And unsafe. When you're arm-in-arm with the same person for a long period of time, it's soon cheek-to-cheek, and we all know pretty well where that can lead to. Into TROUBLE!!!

Don't impose superhuman temptations to yourself. Keep clear to the steady web until you are ready to think of permanent attachments. Until then, be wise, socially.

It takes a level and determined head to control a foolish heart. Where the male critter is concerned, never are the hormones more fanatic, more sensitive to excitement than during the teen years. The bobby sexer herself, on the other hand, has more fear from her heart than from her hormones. The danger in her case is that if doing what comes naturally is what it takes to keep a blossoming Romeo on the hook, she is sometimes tempted to give in.

"To pet or not to pet?" is  soliloquy often repeated on doorsteps, back porches and in parked cars. "Can it be wrong when it seems so right?" ponders the female. Quicker than a penguin sliding down an icicle that's how a quick petting session can turn into a jam session. And you're the one in the jam! At this budding age, you're sexual perceptions are keenly sensitive. Make up your mind before your dates that you are going to control the situation; that you're going to limit your kisses, the duration of your kisses and the type of your kisses. "Soul kissing" does not lead to prayer and meditation!

Troubles are like photographs. They are developed in dark places. Sitting for hours in a dark room or a parked car and kissing is asking for trouble. Prolonged kissing is the first step in serious lovemaking. It whets the appetite. It's meant to warm up the engines in preparation for a trip to the moon. And once the engines are warmed up, then the heavy necking and petting begin, and the next step is going to far.

The oft - tendered trap of the junior - grade lover boy is cloaked in hot-and-heavy camouflage of love. Any fellow who asks you to "prove your love" is trying to take you for the biggest fool whoever walked. Fellows like to experiment. They like to find out how far you will go. Stop short, and they will respect you. This Don Juan wants you to: surrender your virtue; throw away our self-respect; risk getting into trouble.

When a decent boy gets serious about someone had thinks of marrying someone - that someone will be someone he respects. Not all boys are angels, but most are looking for one.

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