Women, A Helpmate?

Women are supposed to be a helpmate, a compliment to man. In the first pages of the Old Testament, we read that God, observing Adam all alone in the world, said, "It is not good for man to be alone; let us make a helpmate unto himself." It was at this time Eve - woman - was created.

Notice the word God Himself used, a helpmate. That's exactly what He intends woman to be - a helpmate - a compliment to man, a completion of man. Girls have a great influence on man and his actions. These are some things girls must keep in mind throughout their entire life. It will be true no matter what their vocation is in life.

While men may not always be too anxious to admit it, the fact remains true that without the love, understanding, gentleness, and encouragement of a woman, they would not be nearly as contented and self-satisfied as they are. I think we would all be truly amazed if we were to learn how many men successful in spiritual, intellectual, physical or material endeavors owe this success to a very great extent to the efforts of some women.

If, however, a woman lacks an idea of true love, if she is inconsiderate, coarse and selfish, and if she puts her own desires ahead of everything else, then she is entirely capable of utterly ruining the man or men with whom she comes into contact. This kind of woman still able to influence men, but her influence will not be toward good, but toward evil. And the men who come under the influence of such a woman fall into the hands of a helpmate of the devil - not a helpmate of man.

Women have this great influence over man for either good or evil. As I mentioned before, it is so important to remember that God has given this very same power to every girl. These powers become more pronounced as girls grew older. A girl should always pray daily that she uses them to bring men closer to God, not to drive them farther away from Him.

"What every man in his heart of desires is a woman to whom he can safely tell everything, to whom he can turn his weariness, to whom he can take his defeats and failures, the last things the lamp that are gone out, the hopes that are ashes, the springs that springs no more, the secret sordid things that eat him up that drag him down."

Men always run onto women when they are down or when problems rage them. Men can only open up
sincerely when talking to a woman whom they are close to or whom they trust and consider a friend than telling them to a man to man business. Man only knows that they can talk to women, understanding their situations and relieving every pain that they feel inside their hearts and feelings.

"Love to us women is life and soul, a priceless jewel without match, but now I have fathomed the sincerity of your love, this jewel I now entrust in your palms - with prayer that you may equal the greatness of my love."

Love to women by men and other people conquer a lot in their lives. They easily trust and hoping that the person they rely on their trust will outgrew and exchange the feeling of love with each other. This is also one of the weaknesses of women. They easily trust a person like they have known them for so long.

"To be a woman is something

so strange, so confused,

so complicated, that only a woman could

put up with it."

The single verse above states that being a woman is not so easy. Sometimes, it really is confusing, for many times women cannot overcome immediately what they feel and leads to failure. But only women ca  pursue and fight the feelings they feel in order for them to make their life in beauty and in success.

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